Luke 14:15-23
15 When one of those who reclined at table with him heard these things, he said to him, “Blessed is everyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God!”
16 But he said to him, “A man once gave a great banquet and invited many. 17 And at the time for the banquet he sent his servant to say to those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’ 18 But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said to him, ‘I have bought a field, and I must go out and see it. Please have me excused.’ 19 And another said, ‘I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I go to examine them. Please have me excused.’ 20 And another said, ‘I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.’ 21 So the servant came and reported these things to his master. Then the master of the house became angry and said to his servant, ‘Go out quickly to the streets and lanes of the city, and bring in the poor and crippled and blind and lame.’ 22 And the servant said, ‘Sir, what you commanded has been done, and still there is room.’ 23 And the master said to the servant, ‘Go out to the highways and hedges and compel people to come in, that my house may be filled. 24 For I tell you, none of those men who were invited shall taste my banquet.’”
In the name of Jesus. Amen.
Last week, we heard the parable of poor, hungry Lazarus who wanted to eat the crumbs that fell from the rich man’s table (Lk. 16:19-31). What Lazarus lacked in life made him trust in and long for God’s eternal promises. Now, this week, we hear a parable of people who are not hungry and don’t desire food. They have been invited to a great banquet that is ready, but they are full of excuses.
Those who make excuses to escape going to the banquet treat the invitation like it isn’t a big deal. They simply aren’t interested in going to the banquet because they each thought they had something better to do. And they don’t care about the repercussions if they are absent. They are comfortable insulting the invitation, the feast, and the master because they have treasures on earth. They don’t realize that, unlike the feast, the invitation is not eternal.
Because it ends on such a depressing note, the point of the parable is easy to see. Hell and eternal damnation are real things. Not everyone goes to heaven. Those who do not think they need God’s grace will find that, outside of His grace, there is only eternal loneliness and torment. As we just sang in our hymn:
But they who have … resisted His grace
and on their own virtue depended,
Shall then be condemned and cast out from His face,
eternally lost and unfriended.
Have mercy upon us, O Jesus![1]
At the time of death or when Jesus returns, the invitation to the feast will be withdrawn. Those who have rejected the invitation will get exactly what they want. They won’t have to offer any more excuses to the master and his messengers. Those who persist in their rejection of God’s invitation will one day be free of God, but they will find that they are eternal prisoners of themselves and their sin.
What we want to notice today is that the people who make excuses aren’t ‘big’ sinners. The guy who had to look at his field, the guy who had to stare at his ox, and the guy who had just gotten married, none of them are skipping the banquet because they had to be murderous, rebellious, thieving hedons. They aren’t skipping the banquet to go commit a lot of sins. Instead, they were skipping the feast because they had too much work to do. They were more interested in their blessings. In the end, they missed the feast because of their earthly goodness, and they didn’t properly estimate the eternal greatness of the banquet. The master had invited them, but they weren’t looking for a banquet because they figured they could get enough for themselves in this world.
I’m going to slightly change gears because today is Father’s Day. Fathers, you have important tasks. God has placed you in your role as a father so that you can take time to teach your child how to throw a ball, bait a hook, shoot a gun, clean a deer, mow the lawn, and drive a car. All those things are important to teach your children. Those skills need to be passed on to the next generation. But if you haven’t taught your child about Jesus, teaching your children all those other things is not enough.
Fathers, you need to provide for your family – economically, emotionally, and most importantly spiritually. Yes, you need to teach your children (both sons and daughters) how to buy and manage fields and property. You need to teach your children how to work and take care of the blessings God has given you. You need to teach your children how to properly evaluate relationships and spend time with your wife. Your kids need to see you do all of that.
But on this Father’s Day, we need to be reminded that this world needs men – real men. We need fathers, husbands, grandfathers, brothers, and sons to be men. Our society desperately needs men to model and teach their sons, daughters, wives, and grandchildren what the essence of being a man is. And here is the essence of being a man – to give.
Real men see themselves as instruments for the good of others. Real men sacrifice themselves to love others in a Christ-like way.
Jesus loves us as the perfect Man. He held nothing back and gave everything for us as He shed His holy and precious blood on the cross so that we can be His guests at God’s banquet.
So, men, be the Christ figure in your family. Be givers. Lay down your personal pursuits, and put your family first. Yes, provide for your family and teach your kids the skills and abilities they will need in this life. But make sure that everything is in the correct order of importance. Fostering faith, establishing the importance of God’s invitation, in your wife and children comes first. Everything, and I mean everything, everything else comes second.
Dads, you can become a great Christian father. You can point your children to the Savior. You can, by the Spirit’s power, keep your promises to your family even when it is inconvenient for you. You can be a great Christian father by bringing your family to church and having daily time in God’s Word and prayer as a family with Your Savior.
You should know there is no job you will ever tackle, no position you will ever fill, that is more important or more eternal than pointing your children to Jesus and bringing them with you to the eternal banquet because you have been invited. You have been invited to God’s feast, and there is room for you, for your family, and for all.
And, dear saints, here is the good news. You aren’t waiting for the feast to come sometime in the distant future. You have come to it. Right here, right now, God prepares a table for you in the presence of your enemies in this world. Here God anoints your head with oil and pours His forgiveness into your cup so that it overflows. God invites you to turn in here to come eat of His bread and drink of the wine He has mixed. Come and receive, leave your simple ways and live, and walk in the way of insight (Prov. 9:4-6). There is room for you now at the table of God’s feast. Amen.
The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.
[1] There Many Shall Come v. 2. Magnus Brostrup Landstad.