Forgiven Forgivers – Sermon on Matthew 18:21-35

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Matthew 18:21-35

21 Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” 22 Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.

23 “Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. 24 When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. 25 And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26 So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ 27 And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. 28But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay what you owe.’ 29 So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ 30 He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. 31 When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. 32 Then his master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ 34 And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”

In the name of Jesus. Amen.

We need to start with some context before we dive in to what Jesus says here. Earlier in Mt. 18, Jesus makes it clear that His disciples will always struggle against sin in this life. Christ says, “If your right hand or right eye causes you to sin, cut it off and pluck it out” (Mt. 18:8-9). Then, Jesus goes on to establish a process for restoring and forgiving those who have sinned against you by talking to them privately, bringing one or two witnesses, declaring it to the church, and finally expelling them from the congregation if they still refuse to repent (Mt. 18:15-17). I would be negligent if I didn’t mention that this process is always intended to restore the sinner back into fellowship. Finally, right before this text, Jesus promises that when sins are loosed from sinners in the Church, they are loosed in heaven (Mt. 18:18).

Now, we get to Peter’s question which immediately follows all of that. “How often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Peter was being generous. Most rabbis in Jesus’ day had a three-strikes-and-you’re-out approach to this question, and Peter more than doubles it. The essence of Peter’s question is, “How much do I have to put up with? When do I get to quit being taken advantage of?” Peter wants practical advice from Jesus, but Jesus doesn’t give any. Instead, Jesus says that we are to forgive as often as sinners repent. 

There is some debate as to whether the phrase Jesus uses here means ‘seventy-seven’ or ‘seventy times seven.’ Either way, the point Jesus is making doesn’t mean we count to seventy-seven or four-hundred-ninety, “I forgive you’s.” Jesus doesn’t want us counting the sins of our neighbor. Christ wants us to keep on forgiving even as we are forgiven. Those forgiven by God are to be forgivers. The parable Jesus tells illustrates this innumerable forgiveness.

The king in the parable wants balanced books, clean accounts. And he’s completely happy to forgive enormous debts rather than demand payment. Settled accounts is the goal, and erasing debt is the quickest way to get there. In the parable, when the king forgives this ten-thousand talent debt (equivalent to two-hundred-thousand years’ salary), Jesus shows that the kingdom of heaven is not like any earthly kingdom.

The kingdom of heaven is established and sustained only by God’s generosity and His ongoing, ridiculous, extravagant forgiveness. No one is a citizen of the kingdom of heaven without the forgiveness of Christ, the King of kings. And if you are not shaped by this forgiveness, if this forgiveness doesn’t change you and you still hold back forgiving others, you are not truly citizens of the kingdom of heaven. Instead, God will hand you over to the devil. Those forgiven by God are to be forgivers of those who have sinned against them. According to Jesus, God the Father will deliver you straight to eternal hell if you do not forgive your brother from your heart (v. 33).

This text should make us squirm, and I know that many of you don’t particularly like this parable. It causes the Law to shine clearly on our hearts so that we recognize that forgiveness doesn’t flow out of us as well as it should. We are more likely to hold a grudge, demand repayment, and want those who have sinned against us to be punished. Even though God promises, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay” (Ro. 12:19Dt. 32:35), we desperately want to have a part in that vengeance. We don’t want to be a doormat. We don’t want to be taken advantage of. We want justice for the sins committed against us. So, when Jesus says that God will deliver us to hell if we do not forgive others from our heart, we should be bothered, we should be agitated, and we should be afraid.

If the final verse of this text – and several other verses like it (Mt. 6:15Mk. 11:25-26Eph. 4:32Col. 3:13Jam. 2:131 Jn. 3:10) – if this teaching doesn’t bother you, repent. It should. The only people who think that they don’t need to forgive are those who do not value or do not believe they have Christ’s forgiveness. In other words, if you refuse to forgive others, you will not be forgiven.

This teaching from Jesus is hard and bothers you. It doesn’t bother you because you think Jesus is being ridiculous. It bothers you because you actually want to forgive. You want to be like God – in a good way. You want to forgive others as He has forgiven you, but you aren’t quite there. So, you feel conflicted and convicted.

Please know that if you struggle with this, it is not a sign of doubt. It is a sign of faith. It shows that you do indeed love the forgiveness of Christ. You love His word. You want His forgiveness and you want to be defined by that forgiveness. The whole reason that you are bothered is that you recognize that you do not fully live up to Christ’s calling. The fact that you are bothered is evidence that you still need forgiveness. You areforgiven, but you are not yet without sin so you need ongoing forgiveness.

Take heart! If you recogniae this, it means that the Holy Spirit continues to work on you forgiving your sins – even your sins of unforgiveness. Live in that forgiveness and continue to strive to forgive. Try to let go. Try to stop obsessing about getting back. Quit daydreaming about vengeance. End your passive aggressive remarks. Put the sins committed against you into God’s hands because all sins are ultimately committed against Him (Gen. 39:9Ps. 51:4).

Remember that Jesus died for the sins of the world (1 Jn. 2:2) and that God Himself wants to forgive all sinners (1 Tim. 2:4). You also want what God wants. You love what God loves. You trust what He says so you want to be reconciled to your enemies and those who hurt you. You want them to be saved, and you work at forgiving as you have been forgiven.

Of course, our old nature doesn’t want to forgive. On this side of glory, faith is always a struggle against our sinful flesh. Our good works and our forgiveness of others is always going to be imperfect, but it is still real and it is still good.

But know this: Your struggle to forgive and to live like Christ is a sign that His Word is true and that your sins are forgiven. He is the one who taught you to pray that you would forgive the trespasses of others as you have been forgiven, and Christ will answer that prayer.

All of that being said, Jesus doesn’t get into all the exact specifics of what this looks like exactly. There are nuances of forgiveness that aren’t dealt with here. Jesus isn’t saying that a person who steals your bicycle shouldn’t give it back or pay and be punished for his theft. Jesus isn’t saying that a child who hits her sibling shouldn’t have consequences when she repents.

There are consequences for sin on this side of glory. Those consequences are godly punishments, and they do not negate forgiveness but should be understood as merciful penalties and helpful tools for curbing further sins.

For example (and this is very important): When someone steals and cheats but repents and asks for your forgiveness, you forgive them and don’t hold a grudge against them. But that doesn’t mean you are required to put them in a position where they can repeat their sin. If a drunk driver crashes into you and paralyzes you, you don’t have to send them a bottle of wine when they ask for forgiveness. You forgive them, but you can still, as a Christian, have them prosecuted and even seek restitution from them. In fact, that might be the most loving thing you do for them.

Finally, as we heard in our Old Testament lesson (Mic. 6:6-8), God isn’t pleased with our offerings no matter how great and costly they are. We cannot even begin to make repayment on the debt we owe Him. Instead, God has shown what is good and what He requires: Do justice. Love mercy. And walk humbly with your God.

In the end, that humility comes when we remember the overarching principle and defining character of Christ’s Kingdom. What defines Jesus’ kingdom is the fact that He does not remember our sins and iniquities (Jer. 31:34). All our transgressions have been set down upon Jesus. He settles your account by His forgiveness. We can stand in this mercy and grace and have hope. For with Christ there is forgiveness that He may be feared (Ps. 130:4). Amen.[1]

The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.


[1] This sermon is an adaptation of a sermon by Rev. David H. Petersen of Redeemer Lutheran Church Ft. Wayne, ID.

Known – Sermon on Revelation 7:9-17 for All Saints’ Day

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Revelation 7:9-17

9 After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands, 10 and crying out with a loud voice, 

“Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, 
and to the Lamb!” 

11 And all the angels were standing around the throne and around the elders and the four living creatures, and they fell on their faces before the throne and worshiped God, 12 saying, 

“Amen! Blessing and glory and wisdom and thanksgiving 
and honor and power and might 
be to our God forever and ever! Amen.” 

13 Then one of the elders addressed me, saying, “Who are these, clothed in white robes, and from where have they come?” 14 I said to him, “Sir, you know.” And he said to me, 

“These are the ones who are coming out of the great tribulation. 
They have washed their robes 
and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. 
15 “Therefore they are before the throne of God, 
and serve him day and night in his temple; 
and he who sits on the throne 
will shelter them with his presence. 
16 They shall hunger no more, neither thirst anymore; 
the sun shall not strike them, nor any scorching heat. 
17 For the Lamb in the midst of the throne will be their shepherd, 
and he will guide them to springs of living water, 
and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.”

In the name of Jesus. Amen.

Dear saints, yes, you saints.

What sets the saints apart? How do the saints become holy? Normally, when we use the word ‘saint’ we are thinking about the really good people. If the church were a classroom, we think the saints would be those who are on the ‘A’ honor roll, the summa cum laude graduates. But that is not the Scriptural way to talk about saints. Instead, that kind of thinking is close to the Roman Catholic idea of saints – those who have done enough good works to avoid purgatory.

The saints are not those who have done so many good works that they earned extra credit before God. Saints aren’t the teacher’s pets. Instead, the saints are those who are made holy by Jesus. We got a picture of the saints in this reading from Revelation 7. The saints are those who have come from every nation, tribe, people, and language who have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. That means, you are included in the number of the saints. You have been cleansed and made holy by Jesus and have had your sins wiped away by Christ.

Today on All Saints’ Day, we remember the saints who are not famous to the world, but they are famous to us. We knew them, took Communion with them, prayed, fellowshipped, and worshipped with them. As a congregation today, we remember with thanks to God Grace Hjelle, Carol Quern, Delores Malm, and John Griffith. We love them and we miss them, but as much as we love them, we know that they probably won’t be remembered in history books. They probably won’t be remembered by many others, but we will never forget them. In particular, we remember that while they have finished their course of faith, they are not gone from us. They have become part of the great cloud of witnesses that was mentioned in our verse of the week (Heb. 12:1-2), who surround us and are now cheering us on as we run our race of faith.

So far in our service, we have had two Biblical descriptions of all the saints that focus on how many there are. The saints are this ‘great cloud of witnesses’ from Heb. 12, and then here from Rev. 7:9 they are called a ‘great multitude’ that is so large you cannot count them. Imagine this massive throng, this sea of people, this glorious crowd so numerous that it takes your breath away. But don’t think for one minute that because there are so many of them that each individual becomes anonymous.

In v. 13, one of the four elders asks John, “Who are these, clothed in white robes, and from where have they come?” And I love John’s response. It’s like he says, “Boy, I hope you know!” But the elder tells John who they are, where they have come from, and how their robes got to be so white. Listen to the answer:

“These are the ones coming out of the great tribulation. They have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. Therefore they are before the throne of God, and serve him day and night in His temple; and He who sits on the throne will shelter them with His presence. They shall hunger no more, neither thirst anymore; the sun shall not strike them, nor any scorching heat. For the Lamb in the midst of the throne will be their shepherd, and He will guide them to springs of living water, and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.” 

These people are all known, intimately known, by God! They have white robes washed clean in the blood of the Lamb. Think about this for a minute. Remember Jesus’ parable about the wedding feast (Mt. 22:1-14). They have been called and invited. They have been greeted at the door. They have been given a wedding garment.

These people are guided by Jesus, their good Shepherd. Think of what Jesus says about this in John 10. “I am the good Shepherd. The good Shepherd lays down His life for the sheep” (Jn. 10:11). Jesus goes on to say about those who are His sheep, “I know My own and My own know Me, just as the Father knows Me”(Jn. 10:14-15). And the book of Revelation says that each one of these people have their names written in the Lamb’s book of life (Rev. 3:513:8). In other words, each one of these people are known by God by name. God knows who they are, and He even knows the number of hairs on their head (Mt. 10:30).

The saints are the known ones! Known and loved by God. God be praised!

Because they are known by God, look at what these saints know by what they sing. Our text has two songs sung by two different choirs. The second one is sung by the choir of angels surrounding the throne. The angels sing, “Amen! Blessing and glory and wisdom and thanksgiving and honor and power and might be to our God forever and ever! Amen” (v. 12). But the first song, the song of the saints, is different.

The choir of saints sing, “Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb” (v. 10). The angels didn’t sing about salvation, but the saints do. This is remarkable.

Now, there is something you need to know about this song, the original Greek does not have the word ‘belongs,’ the ESV supplies that word. The Greek doesn’t have a verb here. Greek does this at times. It leaves us to supply the verb. When Greek doesn’t supply a verb, it is because it doesn’t want to limit the action in any way, so ‘belongs’ is as good verb as any. But it is also legitimate to say, “Salvation is or belongs or is accomplished by or depends upon our God and to the Lamb.”

In other words, the eternal song of the saints is that salvation is by grace alone through faith alone. Now, of course, they are singing about this because it is true. They wouldn’t be singing about something false. But you don’t sing about normal, everyday things. You sing about wonderful things, amazing things, remarkable things. The saints in heaven are amazed and, we could even say, surprised that salvation belongs to God alone. Are they really surprised by that? You wouldn’t think they would be. It’s what the whole Bible teaches. It’s obvious that salvation is by grace alone.

It must be that even though they knew that salvation is by God’s grace alone, but when they got into heaven and saw this reality, they understood better than they ever did before. They are even more amazed and stunned by the salvation they have by grace now that they are in God’s presence.

This is marvelous, it should give us hope, and it should make us excited for when we are with Jesus. We also know that salvation is by grace alone. But we get so focused here about how to live our lives, how to be better people, how to have better relationships, how to improve in good works. All of that is good and right. But while the saints in heaven did those things while they lived here, when they arrive in heaven all those things fade away. The saints are eternally amazed at what God has done for them in saving them.

Dear saints, I hope that you never tire in this life about hearing that God has saved you by His infinite grace. And I hope that even though I mention in every sermon that Jesus has gone to the cross, shed His blood, and died to save you from your sin, I hope that you realize that this salvation will merit an eternal song of praise to Jesus. I want to hammer that into you with every sermon and through the liturgy we use here every week. But you will know it even better and it will be more glorious when you arrive in the presence of your Savior.

No matter how many times you hear it now, no matter how wonderful the Good News of the Gospel is in this life, it is still like looking at a picture of the Grand Canyon but never visiting it. Pictures can capture wonderful moments and remarkable beauty, but it never matches the reality.

On this side of heaven, we are always fighting the temptation to think that we offer something to God for our salvation. But know this, dear saints who are known by God, God’s mercy, grace, forgiveness, and salvation is more than enough to satisfy God’s wrath and remove it forever.

Apparently, things are clearer in heaven than they are here. May God bring us at last to that throng who is known by Him and who knows better than we do now the salvation that Christ has won for us. In that day, we will also know, and we will join in their song. Amen.

The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.