John 19:26–27

²⁶ When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” ²⁷ Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.

In the name of Jesus. Amen.

We might be a little hesitant to say it because it seems so blunt, but on this day – this Good Friday, 1,991 years ago – God died. Jesus, the almighty, eternal, only-begotten Son of God, died. And He died for you. The death that you and I deserve because of our sins is died by Jesus.

This, dear saints, is how God loves you. God Himself took on human flesh and blood so He could be beaten, mocked, scorned, crucified, and die for you and to win your salvation. And I wouldn’t be surprised if we spend all eternity contemplating and rejoicing in this fact. God died, and He died for you.

But we can’t forget that this is not only the death of our God and Savior. It is also the death of a Man, a Man who is also a Friend and a Son.

As Jesus was hanging on the cross, giving His life, and saving the world, our Lord’s mother, Mary, was standing there with some of the other women. All the disciples had fled (Mt 26:56), but apparently John couldn’t stay away. He was there to see the end (Jn. 19:35). You can imagine John inching his way out of the city, slowly stepping up the hill of Calvary, sneaking and threading his way through the crowds, closer and closer until he is there beneath the cross. And he stands next to Mary.

Then, Jesus looks down and sees His mother and the disciple whom He loves weeping. And Jesus says, “Woman, behold, your son,” and to John, “Behold, your mother.”

With these words, Jesus provides for His mother and for John. Christ gives His mother into the care and keeping of His beloved disciple. Throughout His entire life, Jesus perfectly kept the 4^th Commandment to honor His father and mother. As a Child, Jesus was obedient to Joseph and Mary learning from them and submitting to them (Lk. 2:51). After the death of His earthly father, Jesus continued to take care of Mary, look after her, and provide for her.

And even as Jesus is dying, He is still blessing and serving His neighbor and mother. “Look Mary, here’s John. John, here’s Mary. Take care of each other. Love and bless each other. Don’t let each other go.”

By doing this even as He is dying, our Savior reminds us that we need one another. As He accomplishes the salvation of the world (1 Jn. 4:14), He also makes sure that His mom won’t be alone to fend for herself in the world.

As Jesus cared for Mary and John in this way, the God Man cares for you in every way.

Yes, Jesus goes to prepare a place for you in His Father’s house (Jn. 15:2), but He will also give you a bed and roof over your head so you can sleep tonight. Yes, Jesus promises to give you a seat at the eternal feast (Is. 25:6-9; Mt. 8:11), but He will also give you your daily bread today, tomorrow, and every day (Mt. 6:11, 31-32) until He welcomes you into His banquet hall.

Jesus is your Savior, and with this word, Jesus shows that He is also your Friend. Amen.^[1]

The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.

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^[1] This sermon was adapted from a sermon by Pr. Bryan Wolfmueller.